I am high-strung. It’s not that I’m not easygoing or that I’m quick to argue – not in the least. My high-strungness manifests in waves, or rather, in jolting earthquakes that eventually rumble themselves out. My high-strungness comes in the...
It was almost a decade ago but I hear the words like minutes have passed. Sobbing on a friend’s couch, head buried into his sweatshirt-covered shoulder, after he called me up and told me I needed to take a second look at my life. I cried at the realization, I cried at...
No sweet without sour, no peace without war, no joy without sorrow. We’re all well-versed in the laws of opposition and the truths of our world: in order to have the good we must know the bad. Still, is this any consolation when tragedy strikes? It’s...
I’ve been writing this post in my head for months. Envisioning the aftermath. Formulating the response. Figuring out how much I say. I’ve romanticized it in my head, the words cathartically flowing from my mind and whispered breath out of my fingertips and onto...
There’s a saying I once heard (probably from Oprah) about when it comes to the people you interact with on a regular basis: “We teach others how to treat us.” And I used to think that was bogus. Not that I thought that I was immune to...
One of the little details I love best about my life is that my parents still live in the house I grew up in. My room is practically untouched from the time I was a teenager, photographs and books stacked up on my desk from when I moved home my senior year of college....
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