My first introduction to ageism came very early, and in a very odd way that might not seem ageist at all: by getting told incessantly how much younger I looked than I actually was. This was, I learned to infer, a compliment. It was something meant as praise. As a kid,...
Photo by Nic Y-C on Unsplash The benches in Central Park are really something. If you’ve never been to New York City, a primer on one of the city’s most iconically personal touches: every park in NYC has what seem like countless benches swirling through...
I just got off a call with my therapist — my first session with her since June 2023. My decision to press pause for a few months was less about desire and more about focus. I had such strict deadlines to hit — a preorder campaign! A pub date! A launch cabaret! Reach...
On FOMO, Threads, and the de-prioritization of Missing Out. In case you missed it, this week Meta announced its Instagram offshoot (or sibling app, if you will) called Threads: a “we’re-not-here-to-compete-with-Twitter” minimalist, words-forward app vaguely...
Why “Fake It ‘Til You Make It” is half-baked advice when it comes to building confidence. ~ Last Friday, I sent my friend Caroline a text: If I were to find reasonably priced Beyoncé tickets for tomorrow…would you want to go? 24 hours later, we were...
…or did you? I love a good deadline. It’s odd, really, that someone like me who’s prone to anxiety is so relieved by the existence of concrete endpoints. Especially if they were created by someone else. Unmovable, unchangeable dates could very well...
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