Success You Can’t See.
Vincent Van Gogh only sold one painting in his entire lifetime. As such an iconic artist, itโs natural to assume it was one of the โgreats.” Starry Night? Irises? Sunflowers? One of his many, famed self portraits? Nope โ it was a golden auburn-toned piece entitled โRed Vineyard.โ A depiction of farmhands harvesting crop at a wine plantation. Not the one that I, at least, would expect. His life was tumultuous, his paintings underappreciated, his world not ready for what he had to offer.
And yet…he kept painting. He kept expressing himself in the unique way he knew how.
We are so lucky he did.
Iโve been contemplating success a lot lately. What it means to succeed, who it is that determines success.
So many of us desire to be lasting or expansive, or maybe simply useful. We long to make a difference that goes beyond us or lasts way past our own existence. Whether than means a change within the four-ish walls of our apartment uniut or on a big huge global level, our sense of mortality can sometimes scare us into a scramble for success thatโs visible, success we can SEE.
Whether our definition of success involves the immediate future or posthumous celebration, we want to be sure it’s gonna happen. We want to know weโre being the change we wish to see in the world.
But how do we know what is actually lasting?
When it comes to success, what is more important:
success that lasts a lifetime, success you can scale and be sure ofโฆor success that is not shown to you directly, but is impacting the world on a level that’s beyond your awareness?
Social media and technology provide us with amazing tools to connect with and impact each other. Itโs now easier than it’s ever been to gain signs and signals of our success. Whether itโs likes, shares, or just a message from a friend saying how happy they are to know you, in some ways weโre able to be hyper-aware our influence. Seeing our impact, however small, can keep us fueled and connected.
But not everyone reaches out. Not everyone is connected. And as dialed in as our culture is, in many ways the true tell-tale signs of success are old-school. You donโt always know.
And then there is the work we do in the world that weโre not necessarily recognized for. Work that, centuries from now, our society might deem revolutionary. So what’sย more indicative of success: that the success materializes, or that we see its impact?
Iโve come to the conclusion that seeing our impact can be a metric of success – a symptom of and supplement to the success itself. But if weโre truly successful, there might be a whole boatload of impact we donโt see. Lives weโre never aware we touch.
And we need to be okay with that. Because lasting impact is the one thing we cannot control.
Success you canโt see is scary (โDoes what I do really matter?โ), but itโs also kind of empowering. Success you canโt see is what drives us to be fully and completely self-expressed, for how will we know if we donโt even try? If youโre one of those people who believes we are all put on Earth for a reason โ and I for sure am one of those people who believes we are all put on Earth for a reason โ then we must let ourselves fully and completely live on purpose, and look for the little signs telling us weโre doing the thing thatโs in our DNA to do (or at least on the right track).
We see only one star in the dark night and confuse it for a lack of sky, when instead we should be taking it as proof that there’s a huge universe out there filled with way more stars that we can imagine.
It might be a smile from a stranger. It might be a comment on your blog or a tweet from a stranger. It might be your best friendโs child expressing gratitude, or hearing a family member repeat a word of wisdom you offered up randomly one day. Maybe at first glance they don’t seem like much, but that’s the sneaky thing about success: it shows itself in the micro moments, but the macro effects often are so big ย – so many collective moments upon moments – we can’t accurately gauge what a difference we’re making.ย
If you keep your eyes open and live your life to its fullest, its fullness, you will start to see signs everywhere that youโre a lasting force in this world. It’s only those people who actively choose NOT to create change that donโt.
Whether youโre far along your path or just beginning to let it live, please know and trust that whatโs right in front of you is just the tip of the iceberg. A star in the sky. One painting in the collection. Simply desiring to make a difference means youโve probably already made one.
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